Love + Sex

Monday, November 30, 2009

ladies, i need advice. please?

my boyfriend of 2 months is pushing to have sex. i love him a lot but im not ready. and he is. he is 2 years older than i am and not a virgin. i am. i am wondering if i should or shouldnt.. help?
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  • urassismine2's Avatar
    Posted by urassismine2 Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:54pm PDT

    Nope! Never when it pressured! Never! You've spent your whole life protecting your modesty.He can wait!

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  • Joboo027's Avatar
    Posted by Joboo027 Sun Oct 25, 2009 5:54pm PDT

    if you are not ready, then he should RESPECT that. do not allow anyone to force you into performing sex if you are not ready. period! David

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  • Jessica R's Avatar
    Posted by Jessica R Sun Oct 25, 2009 6:19pm PDT

    I think u should wait,,, when u do something pressured it doesnt go the way you want to .

    and if you r a virgin,and u not ready dont do it ,,if he loves u he will wait.

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  • Candis's Avatar
    Posted by Candis Sun Oct 25, 2009 6:35pm PDT

    he is soooo not worth it.... give him a porno mag and lube and find one that shares the same values of passion and waiting as u do!!

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  • __A_YAHOO_USER__'s Avatar
    Posted by __A_YAHOO_USER__ Sun Oct 25, 2009 6:45pm PDT

    No.He should have therespect to wait,and not to pressure you.God Bless.

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  • MD.'s Avatar
    Posted by MD. Sun Oct 25, 2009 10:47pm PDT

    u will feel proud until u r virgin, plz try to keep continue this until u got married with ur special one. remember, if u loose ur virginity, then u will loose ur pride, who love u, will loose interest to u with time. so b sincere n careful to ur life. focus on ur future just thinking that one man, one love in one life is the best forever. thank u.

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  • Juwari's Avatar
    Posted by Juwari Sun Oct 25, 2009 11:22pm PDT

    Love is like liquor, once we drink more we need. Life beginning from love if you misstep your foot on, I am afraid the next will be on the wrong step too. Please dear, it's better tell your boy friend about what you want so if he love you really love you he will understand because love does not always give but also receive, receive the difference and respect others opinion, demand and will.

    I hope and pray you get the real love and discover the matter?

    Me

    TomDave

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  • Ajie's Avatar
    Posted by Ajie Mon Oct 26, 2009 5:06am PDT

    please keep your virgin, for your husband, if he loves you and want you for a wife he can wait

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  • R.I.L.'s Avatar
    Posted by R.I.L. Mon Oct 26, 2009 5:20pm PDT

    WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT, WAIT! If he pressuring it ain`t for the right reasons. If he can`t wait for you, then he don`t deserve you. Straight up! R.I.L.

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  • *SMILE*'s Avatar
    Posted by *SMILE* Mon Oct 26, 2009 9:48pm PDT

    NOO!!! Dont let him pressure you into doing something you will regret later. If you are not ready, dont do it. And if he cant wait for you to be ready than he doesnt love you. Also take in consideration that you have only been going out with him for two months, and dont know each other well enough. You dont want to give your virginity to someone who doesnt deserved it. Wait until YOU are ready to have sex...dont let him do this to you.

    may God help you with this decision.

    Think about yourself first..=]

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