Four Signs That A First Date Is Going REALLY Well

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  Posted by Sophia Marie Wed Jul 8, 2009 8:59am PDT

  Spark? I've been on many a date and have only found that spark once. That's probably why I'm currently single :-) If I don't see the guy being someone I could possibly spend the rest of my life with I don't bother. If I don't really feel for him at the beginning I mean how will I feel months down the road when he knows exactly how to push my buttons? Also, why stay with a guy or girl when you are already having doubts? I say wait for something worth your time!

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  Posted by Jackie Wed Jul 8, 2009 11:28am PDT

  The best first date I ever had was with my husband. We met online and talked for only a couple days---and that was only about when and where to meet. Every other guy that tried to meet me through the online thing, I made sure I talked to for at least a month prior to even considering giving them my phone number. With my husband that definitely wasn't the case. I immediately wanted to meet him. We arranged to meet for coffee that next week (on a Tuesday) and decided that we would play it by ear after that. We met for coffee and talked for about a half hour, laughing and having fun, before he asked if I wanted to grab dinner too. We went to the restaurant and four hours later, the waitress kindly asked us to leave because they were closing. With my husband, there were no nerves or questions. It literally felt like I had ran into an old friend and we were just catching up. Seriously, we both left that date wondering if we were friends, or something more. We decided to go to lunch a few days later, then followed by a trip to the zoo the next week. It wasn't until we went inside this dark cave at the zoo where all the "Night creatures" are kept that we even held hands. (I played the "I am blind as a bat in the dark so you need to hold my hand and guide me through this cave" card...needless to say, he never did let go of my hand after that and I am sure he never will.

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  Posted by Ralph S Wed Jul 8, 2009 1:58pm PDT

  never had a troblem meeting females,,my prubble was,,living in a motor home,,I nevr knew who was going o knock on the door,,most of eh time I would park on thegreen strip, near the beach,,,at the time Carol,Sugie,Doris,Bonnie,Pauline,Hopi,Donna, yelton,an owner of Daisy's palace,(70) OLDEST getting even with her husband after he hit on her twin sister Jane (16) youngest my first wife..always direct the topics,,females are too courious to over look an invite to offer openions,,never never make the first move,,they begin to wonder is something wrong with them,,,and get carlessly inquisitive,,moving closer and closer to te point of no return,its all my ball game now,,and it could bedays even weeks,before she gets the answers shhasbeen looking for,,a femalejust cannot stand to pun,,and be ignored

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  Posted by ~Vannie~ Tue Jul 14, 2009 11:14am PDT

  I love sparks...it's even better with a shot of passion fruit parrot bay. It doesnt get you drunk it's just right!

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