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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Yes, I Want Swine Flu.

by Leslie Morgan Steiner (Two Cents on Working Motherhood)

Swine flu. It’s on NPR in my car. The local news every night. The front page of The Washington Post and the New York Times. Even my Facebook wall!

Not the flu itself. I mean stories about swine flu. How to avoid getting it. When to quarantine your household. When to rush to the hospital. HOW WHERE WHEN the vaccine is available. The thousands who were vaccinated today! The millions who went home disappointed! The people who lie about pregnancy or underlying illness to pilfer the vaccine!

I feel like the only mom in America who actually WANTS to get swine flu.

Now let me stress – before you wipe your holier-than-thou nostrils and throw snotty tissues at me – that I do not advocate intentional exposure to the virus. I’m in a unique position. I have no underlying conditions. I am not pregnant (oh yeah!). I am healthy (physically at least; mentally is another story). My kids are robust dynamos ages 7 to 12 with no risk factors either. We rank just below “nowhere” on the nation’s priority list for vaccinations. However, I do have two relatives battling cancer and undergoing chemo and radiation, who are legitimately terrified of getting swine flu because, um, it would probably kill them. I would never belittle anyone’s fears about illness and my heart goes out to every family who has lost a loved one to this awful virus.

But I want it. Now. Now is a good time. I don’t have any deadlines looming, presentations due, or business travel planned. Both my husband and babysitter are A) in town and B) healthy themselves.

So can we just get swine flu now and get it over with?

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Leslie Morgan Steiner authors Two Cents on Working Motherhood on MommyTracked. She is the editor of the best-selling anthology Mommy Wars and the memoir Crazy Love. Steiner is a frequent guest on the Today Show, MSNBC, and regularly contributes to The New York Times, Newsweek and Vanity Fair. She lives with her husband and 3 kids in Washington, DC.

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  • ?????'s Avatar
    Posted by ????? Thu Nov 5, 2009 8:09pm PST

    I got the swine flu last June. I have gotten the flu before, so it wasn't a big deal. I skipped 1 day of swim practice, took a nap and some tylenol. I was fine. Now I don't have to worry about swine flu.

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  • Mammina's Avatar
    Posted by Mammina Fri Nov 6, 2009 2:39am PST

    Sorry but I don't agree with you, first of you don't catch flu when you want it and secondly in certain countries like Italy healthy people with no underlying health conditions have died from it.

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  • pancakes's Avatar
    Posted by pancakes Fri Nov 6, 2009 6:40am PST

    how about option B -- don't get it at all and let it pass by you completely?

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  • Mo B's Avatar
    Posted by Mo B Fri Nov 6, 2009 7:05am PST

    People in America kids even with no underlying problems have died from it. I had it last month and I missed almost a week of work, couldn't do much it wasn't fun at all. I still have a remaining cough from it. I would not want to get it try or not I just don't understand why you would say that. And your kids are in one of the groups who can get the shot, they are kids and are suppose to be getting vaccinated first. If your kids haven't been vaccinated you would be exposing them to it and why would you want to have a sick kid?

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  • me's Avatar
    Posted by me Fri Nov 6, 2009 7:37am PST

    Wow. Very Extreme! Everyone is not going to get it...you've resigned yourself to getting it and have thought through when you can fit it into your schedule. As a mother you should know that you only get sick when you can't afford to. Best of Health to you!

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  • Katie B's Avatar
    Posted by Katie B Fri Nov 6, 2009 7:53am PST

    Now you are going to get it when you have a huge deadline and a presentation... when your husband is out of town and when you babysitter can't sit for you...

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  • Theresa's Avatar
    Posted by Theresa Fri Nov 6, 2009 8:12am PST

    I got the H1N1 around this time last year. I was just out of work for a week, because it hit me all of a sudden! I even had to be put on an inhaler because of the brochial stuff. It wasn't too bad I'll have to say because if you're generally healthy, like me, you'll be alright. (I went to the hospital because I couldn't break my fever and my heart was pounding, I was told by the ER doctor and nurse that I only had one hour left to live! that was scary.)

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  • alaskamommy's Avatar
    Posted by alaskamommy Fri Nov 6, 2009 11:11am PST

    Theresa, it's interesting to hear that you got it this time last year as it wasn't even declared H1N1 until April 2009. Did they know what it was at the time or did you just have the same symptoms and assume that is what it was?

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  • Cecily's Avatar
    Posted by Cecily Fri Nov 6, 2009 6:24pm PST

    I know how you feel. I have horrbile lungs and a bad heart but I probably wont get sick because I have a great immune system. >.> Everyone around me has allergies, their flues, their crisis but not me. I had the real flue when I was like 13 and never had anything since. Hospital medication doesnt have any effect on me either. I went through 12 hours of being pumped with drugs FOR LABOR and I still felt it. But I also have a high tolerance for pain as well so it was all good.lol. Im not worried about swine flu at all but I hope the drama passes.

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  • Robyn's Avatar
    Posted by Robyn Fri Nov 6, 2009 10:54pm PST

    my house has already been exposed and we didn't even know about it till a week ago when the child i watch got over his sickness. owell

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