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Tuesday, February 9, 2010

Exclusive from Elle: What terrifies Beyoncé? Childbirth


It's hard to imagine Beyoncé Knowles afraid of anything. She gives off this strong, serious, take-no-prisoners vibe, all while looking flawlessly gorgeous and approachable. But can we hate her? Not a chance. Not even when she has some questionable fashion moments.

Butin the January issue of Elle, the R&B singer and actress reveals one big fear: childbirth. Says Mrs. Jay-Z, "...I saw my nephew being born. That traumatized me."

If I had witnessed a baby's birth prior to having my own kids, I think I would have been pretty freaked out as well. It's not pretty. Until you get that baby in your arms, of course.

Maybe Beyoncé needs to channel her alter ego, Sasha Fierce, to get past her labor and delivery angst because good grief, we know her baby with Jay-Z would be downright adorable. And imagine how Beyoncé would rock maternity clothes.

And when it comes to her marriage, Beyoncé admits she and Jay-Z have a "power struggle." But she digs it because it shows strength in character. Otherwise...she'd be bored. Guess what? We believe her.

Check out these snippets from her interview:

On marriage to Jay-Z: It’s a power struggle. But if I didn’t respect someone and they didn’t have that strength, then I would be bored. I wouldn’t be attracted to them.”
 
On having kids: I’m terrified of having a child.  “No way! I’m terrified of delivering a child because I saw my nephew being born. That traumatized me. I’m only 27. I’ve got time”
 
How her latest role, playing Etta James in "Cadillac Records," took an emotional toll on her personal life: “My mom had to leave the set. I don’t normally curse. Maybe twice a year. I have to be really livid. Somebody saying things or scheduling something where I’m not in control. It was freeing, but it was also the most emotionally draining time of my life. Every day I would come home; my eyes would be completely swollen”

You can read more of the interview with Beyoncéover at Elle, where, yes, she looks flawlessly gorgeous.
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  • SHAC's Avatar
    Posted by SHAC Thu Dec 4, 2008 9:51pm PST

    We should not blame her at all,me too am a lady and i can't imagine myself giving birth.It's so scary.

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  • Rowdygirl's Avatar
    Posted by Rowdygirl Fri Dec 5, 2008 6:37am PST

    She can just buy a baby instead of having one.. isn't that the latest thing? Who cares...

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Fri Dec 5, 2008 7:51am PST

    I was afraid of giving birth, too; all 3 times. No matter how painful or scary each birth was,though, by the time the baby came out and was in my arms it was all but forgotten.

    Except #2...she put quite a hurtin' on me!

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  • Chrystani's Avatar
    Posted by Chrystani Fri Dec 5, 2008 8:46am PST

    Thats like reason two im not having a kid. I couldn't imagine a child ripping out of my vagina... Like a human is coming out of my vagina, does that not freak people out? I guess not the world wouldn't be populated if everyone thought like me..

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  • Isabel's Avatar
    Posted by Isabel Fri Dec 5, 2008 10:13am PST

    It isnt that bad each person is different. It is so beautiful to become a mom and to have to look out and care for someone that grew and came out of you... i have a two month old and he is the best thing that has happen in my whole life....

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  • Superlativity's Avatar
    Posted by Superlativity Fri Dec 5, 2008 10:24am PST

    Hey guys, they have this thing called an epidural, don't forget those, they are great! I didn't feel a thing with my daughter, and I wasn't even sore afterwards.

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  • HotCrossBuns's Avatar
    Posted by HotCrossBuns Fri Dec 5, 2008 12:42pm PST

    yes, superlativity, but sometimes baby is in such a rush to get out they don't stop to wait for the epidural. I asked for the DIY kit with baby3, just in case the same happened with him as did with baby2. My doctor wasn't down with that, though. teehehe

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  • Superlativity's Avatar
    Posted by Superlativity Sat Dec 6, 2008 9:11am PST

    You are hilarious, HotCross, lol!

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  • Cindy's Avatar
    Posted by Cindy Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:08pm PST

    people u are hilarious lol!

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  • Rebecca's Avatar
    Posted by Rebecca Sat Dec 6, 2008 4:19pm PST

    Epidural, sure, unless you're one of those people like me who CAN'T have one because you body's reaction to any anesthesia makes cancer look like a better option...... So no babies for me either!

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