Monday, November 30, 2009

As Per Our Conversation

Dear FC,

As per our conversation tonight ...

I realized a few things.

1.) You are a respectable woman who signifies integrity.

You should have never been the victim of abuse. Anyone who has ever showed you any disrepect was only doing so out of jealousy and immaturity. These tactless indivduals were projecting themselves in a rude and destructive manner because they did not know the incredible woman that you are. You are too good for them because anyone in your rank would not stoop to the level that they did.

I am upset to hear that this could happen to you. I would have expected someone like yourself to just ignore these type of people but you are human and have feelings. When I learned how they made you feel I also became saddened for you because I know it hurt you. However,you do have the biggest heart I have ever seen and this is why you got caught up in the mix. You were just trying to show them love which you do so well but their evil ways got the best of you.

You deserve to be treated like the queen you are. You treat everyone like they are kings and queens so why settle for anything less than that. However, the people you were dealing with did not deserve your royal treatment. They deserve to be treated just like the way they treat others. I respect you more for having the courage to walk away and not to have stooped to their level. In time the apology that you are looking for will come your way. By this time you will be so over the situation that itwould not even matter anymore.

2.) The Love You Have For Life Is One Of A Kind

I admire your ability to be resilent. You have experienced so much in Life but one would not know because of the Love you still have for life. Most people would just give up. You did not give up and I find that to be such a admirable quality. Although these people may have hurt you, you are not giving up on Love. You are still willing to project your love to others although you have been wronged. Most would turn bitter towards Love and shut the door completely.

You are like anyone else in the world. You put your pants on the same way.  I love the way you have humbled yourself although you are very gifted and talented. Most people with your qualities would sit on a pedestal and expect praise for their accomplishments everyday. You don't. You show others love and understanding everyday and relate to them as if you have walked a mile in their shoes. You were born with an acute power for compassion and empathy that I turn into mush for.

Your Love for Life does wonders. You are able to reflect this energy onto many and you able to make them realize that Life is worth living to the fullest without judgement. You know how to grab the bulls by the horns and just ride.

3.) You are a Diamond in the Rough

I desire to be yours because you have set yourself standards and are holding them tightly to your heart. You are not picking up any random Joe or Bob off the street to make up for the loss and hurt you had in previous relationships. You know what you want and you will go to any extreme to make sure you secure it.

The beauty that you have within radiates on the outside. You deserve a gentle being by your side. Someone who will complement your beauty. DIamonds are said to last forever and your spirit and soul is one that will last forever on this Earth. You have done so much and affected so many in a positive way that God would want your soul to stand behind to console many others like the Angel that you are now.

I just want to keep reminding you of how special you are. I do not like to hear of your past hurts because you mean so much to me now. I could not understand or put into words how hurt I was to learn of this today. As our communication grows deeper and we learn more about each other the one thing I am certain is that you should never be the victim of abuse. You are too precious for that and I will do my best in the here and now to protect you from feeling that way again.

WIth All My Love,
Tender Love
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    Posted by Francoise Tue Nov 3, 2009 6:52am PST

    TL,

    OMG! This post left me speechless! That was my reaction once again. I gotta run now but as soon as I return my love I will definitely give this my full attention as you have given me yours and I will respond more in depth to show my gratitude to you and for your very warm very honorable, and compassionate thoughts of me.

    For this and everything you have done and continue to do for me my love, I hope you have a wonderful day ahead and I look forward to communicating with you more and more.

    Your Eternal Love,

    FC

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    Posted by Francoise Tue Nov 3, 2009 1:18pm PST

    TL,

    Thanks for acknowledging my having been hurt by others and how those individuals who have done so do not deserve me. I also noted that your views of me and beliefs about me having integrity and respect for all people and not having recieved any respect in return. I thank you so much for telling the world why I responded the way I did and that I was able to walk away from it all. Yes, I am strong for doing so but it has taken a toll on me for some time....they say time heals all wounds, and it did this for me I am confirming this today. I was a victim of their ruthless behaviors and arogganct and selfishness behaviors thinking they are great and also only caring about themselves, but I didn't let them affect me.

    I thank you TL for letting me know that you feeling hurt upon hearing this and were able to feel compassion for me, such as I have done for you during our private conversations regarding an ill family member that is causing you prepratory grief. I believe at this point we were able to provide eachother what we needed at our crutial moment which is love and compassion for eachother and having gone beyond ourselves to do so with using and expressing our mercy ego.

    Next, thanks so much for your evidencing here my characteristics which you admire that has helped me to get by through my difficult moments and even though I had suffered to have not allowed myself to have heartened my heart and rather to keep on loving and have an open heart towards you and others. I really apreciate it that you can see my rough spots and my flaws while also express my positive attributes which is very important to me and shows your true love for me.

    Finally, I thank you from the bottom of my heart for being the inspiration that you have been for me to show the world how you feel for me using the diamond, that which is powerful and brilliant from all the other gems, it describes HOPE, and because you used it as a symbol of your view of me shows you how proud you are of me. I appreciate this very much. :)

    Love,

    FC

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    Posted by Tender Love Tue Nov 3, 2009 6:42pm PST

    My Dear FC,

    I just want to say that you do not need to thank me. It is something that anyone in their right mind should notice about you. You are a ball full of love. If there is anyone that disagrees then they donot know you like I and so many others know you. They are oblivious to true beauty and they only rely on judgements and immaturity. Anyone who has ever experienced true beauty knows what I mean when I say that you are BEAUTIFUL.

    If there is anyone out there that disagrees with my beliefs about you then they fall under the catergory of those I described above. They are just jealous and judgemental. They would not know true beauty even if it was smacked in their face. They will always live in black and white and never see the beauty of someone's true colors.

    Contrary to belief ... I have always seen you to radiate such beautiful colors and that was why I was so attracted to you. I acted irrationally at times but hey who wouldn't if the sexy devil caught their eye. I do not view you as a devil though. To me you were an angel sent from up above and now I am forever devoted to you.

    I love you more today then yesterday and tomorrow I will love you more.

    Love Always,

    Tender Love

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    Posted by Francoise Wed Nov 4, 2009 5:39am PST

    Dear TL,

    I am deeply honored by your thoughts of me and your lovely comment to me. No, let me correct this. I am doubly honored, as you have kindly put it up here in front of the world to see how you feel about me and also because of your perpetuating your influences unto others to learn to see the beauty in seeing colors rather than black and white and for other things too-:), and most of all for being upfront and showing being bold about it on your posts, instead of burying it somewhere. What a Man!!!

    I also thank you for seeing those who had been against me as judgemental and immature, which makes me appreciate you even more since this shows you are not influenced by others negative remarks and have your own mind, which is a beautiful one considering the love you have shown me. :)

    You are my sun and my sunshine, lighting my world from its center. You determine the direction and flow of my heart and soul, giving everything life. If you end, so does my world.

    You are the dream that upon awakening haunts you because you know that it held the mysteries of your life and that it is more true than anything you’ve known. If you are not there, I do not dream. btw! I love waking up each morning to see your im from the night before. This puts a smile on my face.

    Te amo,

    FC

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