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Tuesday, December 1, 2009

Some people do get fired for having affairs with younger coworkers. Just ask Steve Phillips.

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What do you know? It turns out that some people do actually get fired when news hits the tabloids of affairs with younger employees in the workplace. ESPN fired Baseball analyst Steve Phillips, less than a week after he admitted having an affair with a production assistant at the cable network.

It didn't help, of course, that the 22-year-old production assistant started calling Phillips' wife, sent her a graphic letter about their involvement, and showed up in the family's Connecticut driveway in August after Phillips broke off the affair, according to police reports. Still, it makes you wonder: Why did ESPN fire Phillips, 46, when...

.... a sitting president (Bill Clinton) survived in office after stories of his involvement with a White House intern?
.... a sitting governor (South Carolina's Mark Sanford) hasn't left his job behind after disappearing from his state over Father's Day to go to Argentina to see the woman he was having an affair with?
... David Letterman admits past affairs with young staff members (though not married at the time) and is praised for how he delivers the news to his audience after an ex-boyfriend (and CBS news producer) of one of the women allegedly blackmails him?

That's just a few cases in which prominent men have held onto their jobs, as supporters argue that their sex lives are private and their dalliances should be dealt with with privately, between man and wife, even if they occurred in the workplace. 

"Steve Phillips is no longer working for ESPN," the network's spokesman, Josh Krulewitz, said in a statement, USA Today reports. "His ability to be an effective representative for ESPN has been significantly and irreparably damaged, and it became evident it was time to part ways."

So what's so different about Steve and ESPN? It could be the fact that in 1998, when Phillips was general manager of the Mets, he admitted to having sex with a Mets employee, who sued for sexual harassment. The case was settled out of court. Phillips was fired from the Mets in 2003. Also, there's this:

"ESPN has been troubled by a series of workplace issues involving alleged misconduct by its television personalities," USA Today reports. "In 2006, baseball analyst Harold Reynolds was fired after a female intern complained about what he called a 'brief and innocuous hug.' Reynolds sued and settled with the network last year."

Seems there have been other boys-will-be-boys-who-say-stupid-suggestive/harassing-things moments at ESPN, and maybe that's why management is more sensitive to adulterous employees whose exploits make it into the news.

What do you think: Why should Phillips lose his job while others in similar situations don't?

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  • opiniononly's Avatar
    Posted by opiniononly Mon Oct 26, 2009 3:33pm PDT

    Nice to read that ESPN is taking the hard line and attempting to clean house. I'm sure this guy knew upfront that his behavior was breaking corporate rules, regardless of the fact that he seems to have poor judgment in choosing his side action.

    The only way one can pass judgment on Phillips' situation is not by comparing it to actions/lack of actions taken against others who don't work for ESPN; one can only respond if there are others employed by ESPN who didn't get fired for identical actions.

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  • FL Enginerd's Avatar
    Posted by FL Enginerd Mon Oct 26, 2009 4:04pm PDT

    I should hug my boss and try to get a million bucks too!

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  • springtime's Avatar
    Posted by springtime Mon Oct 26, 2009 4:35pm PDT

    This same story keeps repeating itself, only the names and positions change. Politicians, CEOs, sports heroes, and the list goes on. Before a person is hired in any capacity, they should follow the military's handbook... hanky panky of any type between enlisted persons and you are punished. General or Private First Class... doesn't matter.

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  • Doktor Eevol's Avatar
    Posted by Doktor Eevol Mon Oct 26, 2009 6:03pm PDT

    I don't think "similar situations don't" I think they ALL should either be fired, demoted, or be reprimanded in some other way. I think it's a shame that Letterman hasn't had any consequences to his actions too.

    Sex with the underlings SHOULD be a huge no-no... but apparently we live in a society where people still believe that if a rich MAN wants something, he's entitled to it no matter what he cost to people around him or his work or home environment.

    So yeah. NO. Totally inappropriate, end of story.

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  • Kiera's Avatar
    Posted by Kiera Mon Oct 26, 2009 6:58pm PDT

    I think it's kind of sad that people have sex with their corporate superiors, and then turn around and sue for sexual harassment. Technically, aren't they willing partners? Wouldn't it be RAPE if it was non-consent? I agree with the majority party, these men SHOULD be punished, because what they have done/are doing, is definitely wrong. But let's be realistic, boys WILL be boys.

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  • Dot Rat's Avatar
    Posted by Dot Rat Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:38pm PDT

    People get fired for having affairs with married coworkers, period. It screws up the work, it makes a mess of the business. Age is irrelevant (unless of course one of the people is underage).

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  • Dot Rat's Avatar
    Posted by Dot Rat Mon Oct 26, 2009 8:41pm PDT

    Interesting that there are women here who don't grasp the notion that a come-on by a superior at your job involves coercion and implied force. Certainly consensual affairs happen in the workplace, but anytime a superior is involved with a subordinate it raises enough complex issues that the rule is NEVER do it. Period. So if the sup/sup are truly committed, if one leaves to work somewhere else their "love" should live on.

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  • Katie W's Avatar
    Posted by Katie W Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:24am PDT

    Why would he even think of jeopardizing his career(Hello)

    I just watched the movie Disclosure it was basically the same thing but it was a woman who got fired for being a sexual deviant

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  • Katie W's Avatar
    Posted by Katie W Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:26am PDT

    You shouldnt get involved with someone you work no matter what the circumstances are

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  • Mr Zox's Avatar
    Posted by Mr Zox Tue Oct 27, 2009 6:57am PDT

    hebgrostryccomstankvagina:

    YOU'RE A TOOL.

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